I’m sounding two trumpets.
One, because I turned 50 last month, and one because I finally made it to experience daily happiness.
I haven’t felt this fulfilled since I was a kid.
I’m sharing the 50 things that helped me get to this goodness.
Check out the 50 ways I found HAPPY, 5 each week.
I’ll be adding 5 more next week.
Tell me what you think or add to my list in the comments section.
11. If IT lights you up, it’s your purpose.
I don’t mind the discomfort of staying in shape. My hands tingle when I lift heavy weights. I don’t wear workout gloves. I could care less about the callouses. The pain of getting stronger and tighter is worth it.
It lights me up.
I don’t mind sweating. I don’t care if my hair gets frizzy and wild, as long as I’m fit, flexible, and able to dance into bliss. Dancing lights me up.
Training others to get strong lights me up. Writing lights me up. Being an artist lights me up.
I refuse to pursue any profession, any goal, any job, any relationship —- that doesn’t light my fire.
Passion is all.
Passion is YOUR PURPOSE.
12. Remember your childhood passion.
I played school, changed my voice to speak for all my dolls, wrote short stories about large families filled with love, journaled, daydreamed about big city living, did mini-performances for anyone who would watch, smiled all the time.
In the last twenty years my greatest joys came from teaching large fitness classes, recording audio and dance video for my business, living in Chicago, Los Angeles, and New York, coordinating a Theatre program for high school students with special needs, and all the things I was born to do.
What were you born to do?
Ask your child Self. Then do it.
It will take you to a deeper happiness than I can speak of.
13. Okay, I have to say it–stay away from prepared food in a box as often as you can.
I know it’s convenient. It’s ready-to-eat, as long as you have a microwave thingy. The marketers know it too.
But look at it. It’s fake, processed, and probably addictive. It might claim to be healthy, but food that spoils is the healthy food. Prepared food in boxes is usually timeless. Doesn’t that scare you?
as often as you can, save boxed and canned foods (that claim to be “easy” because they’re already cooked for you) for famine.
14. If you like something other people call CORNY, like it anyway.
I wear lipstick and green eye shadow when I workout. If I’m gonna sweat so much my hair frizzes and I can squeeze liquid me out of my top when I’m finished, I wanna look good doing those mad-crazy workouts.
If anyone thinks it’s weird, odd, vain, wack, ridiculous—whatever.
After I watch a movie, I like to debrief. It’s best done at a coffee shop or a bar. I want to talk about the story, characters, ending, my feelings. Everything.
If it’s odd, weird, too much—whatever.
Like what you like. Out loud.
15. Listen to your own wisdom.
Be veh-wee, veh-wee quiet.
Spend time alone every week. I use my journal for this. Every morning at 6:30, I’m alone but not totally. With my journal, I can hear my Interior Voice. It’s a guide.
We have become inundated and ADDICTED to the phone and it’s 24/7 news updates from CNN, Huff Post, Instagram, Kanye and Kim.
How can we trust ourselves if we continue to absorb the barrage of advice and subliminal messaging coming from under our fingertips?
You have a lot to teach yourself. Turn off the NOISE. Put your phone in a drawer. Stuff the remote control between the cushions. Take out your earbuds. Listen to yourself.
You are wiser than you realize.
Tune in to your own wisdom.
See ya next week.
Till then, live above ordinary.